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10 Lessons for Men...And How Our Partners Can Help

Written by Jerry Hancock, Executive Director of Men in Balance

Men in today's world face a host of complex issues:

  • How do I excel at my career without sacrificing my marriage and family life?

  • How do I establish and maintain a healthy marriage?

  • What unhealthy attitudes or beliefs do I have that are destroying my relationships with myself and with others?

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Each Lesson Contains

Soul-Searching Questions to Help Guide Your Journey

Concrete Action Steps so That You Can Move Forward

Action Steps Your Partner Can Take to Support You

BONUS: Resources and an Action Plan to Keep Growing

Who should read this book?


  • wishing to learn more about themselves and make changes to improve their marriages or intimate relationships
  • going through divorce or separation seeking to understand what went wrong
  • facing a “speed bump” in their life such as job loss, change of social status or health issues
  • looking for more substantive relationships with other men


  • who want to better understand their man and enrich their relationship
  • who want to help their man become more fully human by learning about and accepting his masculine makeup
  • hoping for more closeness in their relationships with men, including male family members.
  • searching for relationships with men who can become loving husbands and fathers.


  • wanting for their sons a new paradigm of masculinity and what it can mean to be a man
  • wanting to understand their role in creating potential issues later in life for sons or daughters


  • wanting a closer relationship with sons and daughters
  • who may question their effectiveness as a parent of a son or stepson
  • wanting to lead their family spiritually


  • who may pass along some of these ideas to men seeking guidance
  • who wish to expand their understanding of men’s issues
  • looking to develop more empathy for the issues men are facing


  • who are seeking a deeper understanding of men and how their church can help
  • planning to develop a new type of Men’s Ministry more relevant to contemporary men (Men in Balance offers Men’s Ministry programs based on these ideas. Page 203)


  • who wish to have a better understanding of their father’s heritage and belief system
  • working to understand the importance of the father/son relationship and its implication for their lives
  • hoping to someday father their own sons and daughters in more holistic ways


  • who want a better understanding of their fathers and the other men in their lives
  • who may feel their fathers parented them differently from their brothers